Choosing Our Response
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PROJECT OF THE WEEK
"Emotion regulation is not about controlling what you feel. It's about choosing how you respond." — Adam Grant
I really like this quote because it shifts the focus from something impossible to something achievable.
Most of us know, at least deep down, that we can't control our feelings. We can't simply decide not to feel frustrated, overwhelmed, anxious, disappointed, or discouraged. Emotions show up whether we invite them or not.
What we can control is what happens next.
That distinction matters.
When we talk about productivity, planning, and organizing, people often think of calendars, to-do lists, and systems. Those tools are important, but our ability to respond to our emotions may be even more important.
Getting started
Think about the last time you felt overwhelmed by a long task list. The feeling itself wasn't the problem. The challenge was what happened after. Did you shut down? Avoid the task? Get stuck in worry? Or were you able to pause, acknowledge the feeling, and take one small step forward?
Emotions are a little like waves. They rise, they peak, and they eventually come back down. The goal isn't to stop the wave from coming. The goal is to learn how to ride it without letting it carry us too far off course.
The good news is that responding differently is a skill. It can be learned, practiced, and strengthened over time.
Every day, we have opportunities to make small choices. We can take a break instead of giving up. We can ask for help instead of struggling alone. We can choose one next step instead of focusing on everything at once.
We may not get to choose our feelings, but we do get to choose our response. And often, those small choices are what help us return to what matters most.
Ready to Get Started?
If you're feeling excited about putting this strategy into action and could use a little extra accountability and support, the It’s All in the Planning Starter Pak is here to help! Designed to set you up for success, it’s the perfect tool to keep you on track and moving forward.
Let’s make progress together—because great results start with great planning!
A Note from Happy Spaces
Our goal is simple: to add value to your life. If you think this project will be helpful, here are some steps to set yourself up for success:
Estimate how long it will take—then double it. Giving yourself extra time helps reduce stress.
Schedule it on your calendar for the week ahead. Setting a specific date increases follow-through.
Break it up if it will take more than an hour. Tackling it in smaller steps makes it more manageable.
Make a list of every action needed before you start. A clear plan helps keep you on track.
Do what works for you—you don’t have to complete every part, just what adds value to your life.
Find an Accountability Partner—having support makes it easier to stay committed.
We understand that building new habits and systems can be challenging, but you don’t have to do it alone. For additional support, visit HappySpacesBySarah.com and let’s make organizing and planning easier together.
Creating a life you don't need a vacation from! ®
Sincerely,
Sarah Weingarten
Meet Sarah
As the oldest of nine kids with two working parents, I grew up juggling many responsibilities at home. Organization and time management became my lifeline amidst the chaos.
I attended the Cornell Hotel School and pursued my childhood dream of working in the hospitality industry. In 2016, I launched Happy Spaces, combining my passion for structure and efficiency with helping others.
I love working with students to develop essential organizational, time management, and study skills. These skills empower them to reach their full potential, build confidence, and create a future they feel good about.